I had this idea in my head that summer
holidays meant rest, relaxation, taking it easy. Not so much when
you have three very different children with very different desires in
every moment of every day.
As a kid, summer was running around,
playing “kick the can” and “hide and seek” into the dark
hours of the night. It usually involved some sort of travel to
somewhere far away from home. And more than likely there would have
been a hotel stay somewhere. It meant running through the pastures
and the gardens picking whatever we could get our grubby little
fingers on without getting caught and then scolded. There were
swimming lessons to be taken and bike ride adventures and camping in
the back yard and watching meteor showers. Sleepovers and hiking and
creek swimming and fishing.
This summer, for me, has been about
taking and accepting opportunities to create great memories for my
kids. One after the other, after the other, after the other. It
seems as though June is but a moment ago and September is upon us in
a few more days. I can remember wanting summer to go longer than it
did. I also remember wanting to get back to school.
So when asked, “how's your summer
holiday?” I think to myself, “holiday?” This momma hasn't had
a holiday. The kids have. I hope it's been fun. I've heard a few,
“this was the best day ever.” So that has to mean something.
Right?
It feels like it's been more work than
the school year is. Packing and unpacking and packing again. Heaps
and heaps of laundry. Collapsing closets, yes closets - the girls'
followed shortly after mine and I will be taking Ry's apart to fix it
before it decides to attack as well. Play dates and water parks and
gymnastics lessons for Ella who is determined to put herself through
a coffee table trying to do cartwheels. Berry picking and jam making
and sandcastles at the beach. Doctor appointments and dentist
appointments and a couple of “please fix my back” chiropractor
appointments.
But, and this is big, there have been
wonderful visits with family and friends. Days of wonderful
fellowship and evenings of laughter and shared stories. Pool parties
- and a really nasty, five days later, blister-popping-skin-peeling
sunburn. Wiener roasts with marshmallows and kids with sticks.
Front porch visits with my grandpa. Crazy, out of the blue, summer
lightening storms. Best summer ever – maybe. Or maybe just the
best summer so far. Summer holiday? Nope, but I wouldn't change it
for anything.
I am so grateful for the time I have
with my family. Moments of unadulterated joy in all this busyness
that is our life. I am grateful for the friends I am blessed with
and the time that we've been able to share together through these
last few weeks. God is good and I am grateful and blessed.
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Rathtrevor Beach |
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Chasing dragonflies on the grass at Royal BC Museum |
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Beautiful girl, full of joy! |
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Priceless - Ava is such a little ham sometimes. |
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Check out my great horns and googley eyes to match. |
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Royal BC Museum |
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Little Qualicum Falls Park |
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Is lunch ready yet? |
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Ava |
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Ryan |
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and Ella. |
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